The right people the right you

Have you ever wondered the reason you most times find it difficulty to accomplish some projects that you ought to  have accomplish long time ago? have you thought of the reason you are still in the same spots? Do you know the reason your brain is static that it sometimes can not reason properly or remember things easily? Well I think you should check the people around you because the people around you determines how organized or disorganized your life will be. 

I remember a girl called Naomi who was very vibrant, intelligent and talented in various ways, she use to be the center of peoples heart every where she went, but all these attributes turned into a different story entirely when she lost her parents to an auto crash which lead to her living with a relative. This relative of hers showed her another side of life which she never knew existed, A positive life? off course not,  she faced a lot of challenges along the line and one of these challenges she faced was discrimination, she is often seen as an out cast. This in some way disorganized that beautiful life she once had because she started seeing herself as an out cast, one without value, and the worst of all became inferior. This made her not to have any stable relationship with anyone.Years went by she grow into a matured beautiful young lady, faced with the societal challenges and low self esteem, within she has the well withal to face these challenges but the way to go about it is what the problem is. She knows what to say but lacks composure, and is often scared of what the other persons reaction would be, all the time she prefers to satisfy other people to her own dissatisfaction and these often leads to disrespect to her most times with these she adopted the choice of confronting  any challenge through aggression, which left her with being a loner because no body wants to associate with an aggressive person. This some how affected her reasoning some how because she sees everyone that comes across her as cruel, and her sense of reasoning became too poor. Her life became disorganized instead of organized.

There are a lot of people who are faced with challenges a lot more terrible than Naomi's, though the possibility of avoiding it may be difficult but as individuals we should try to associate with people who support our dreams, people who feel what we feel, and understand where we are and were we are going.should in case anyone finds themselves in Naomi's kind of challenge do try these six itemized below

1. Develop strong heart, mind and a though skin
2. Do not accept that anyone is better than you
3. Keep doing what you believe in
4. Avoid thinking about what people must have said to you
5. Do not carry over any anger.
6. Avoid jealousy and envy of any kind. 

Then if you want to have the right "YOU" do a personal assessment of the people that surround you each day as stated below

1. Get a pen and a paper
2. Write the names of all the people that surround you each day
3. List there characters
4. List things you discourse on a daily basis
5. List what values they had added to your life ever since you know them

Anyone that does not qualify to your expectation, kindly find a way to do away with them. 

I leave you with this word "try and surround yourself with people who are positive and are ready to support your dreams when you do this there would not be only the right you but also the sky will be your beginning.