Everybody is normal till you get to know them. (Never expect much from anybody)

Vivian is a lady I respect so much though she is far younger than I, I still feel she is a very discipline lady and would always complement her for the way at which she resolves any situation. I often call her up in some situation I find difficulty to deal with and her advice would seem more like and ice shower on my body. That was because I was just getting to know her. 
 Few weeks in to my relationship with her, I saw a different Vivian from the former Vivian I had earlier known. Her words that day gave a rush of blood on my skin; I could still feel it echo like a time bomb at every point  I remember it. There and then it dawned on me that one can never know a person until you go close to the person besides I expected so much from her that was the reason I got disappointed in her attitude.      

Most times we expect much from everyone we come across in life, we expect they should be genius, that they should be perfect in attitude and well discipline individuals forgetting that they are humans and not gods, that is the reason we often get disappointed when eventually they did not meet up to our expectations.

The truth is that in dealing with people, we ought not expect much because humans are not perfect, they make mistakes, sometimes some accept corrections while some people do not. That is just the way they are formed and any attempt to contribute to their becoming a better person often result to a serious conflict. that most respected person by you can become very repulsive which could be disappointing but if your expectations from him/her are less then you would not feel all wired about their action because you already know they would fault.