Consequences of pre-marital sex

The act of SEX is performed for two reasons, which are

1.       Pleasure

2.       Reproduction

This could be ok if only one is married. The reason is that if one is not married it is a thing of pain and anguish but if married it is a thing of joy.

Sex could be a thing of pain and anguish to the unmarried because it comes with different consequences which could affect both the male and female negatively.

The consequences of sex which I acronym PRES as shown below

1.       P – Physical

2.       R – Relationship

3.       E – Emotional

4.       S – Spiritual

If not well understood and prevented could cause a lasting mark in the life of who ever is involved in it. That is the reason is well advice to the unmarried and teenagers most especially to stay abstinence.
A critical observation of the Physical consequences of sex we find out that the pain is worse than the benefit as unmarried couple, as these consequences derail its victims and rob them off life and ambition.

The physical consequences of sex is that type of challenges that is seen in the physical appearance and these could be classified in to two categories namely

1.       Pregnancy

2.       Infectious diseases

The pregnancy if married brings joy to couple but as teenagers or unmarried it is mostly a thing of pain and regret. The reason is that to start up a family there must be mutual agreement between two people but when that agreement is not there then two things would happen, those two things could either be understanding or rejection.

Very few guys that impregnate a lady accept her while majority reject the lady, when this happen the lady start thinking of alternative which may be to commit abortion or keep the baby. Don’t forget that abortion is a murder, many people may be wondering how, but remember that foetus in the ladies womb has blood and was destined for a purpose on earth a lot of people are waiting for the child’s manifestation and the hopes of all those people would amount to nothing if the child is aborted. In the process of abortion that single lady may die or even get her womb damage which could lead to barrenness when she eventually gets married.  Alternatively she may decide to give birth to the child and throw the child away which is the reason we have so many children in the orphanage homes today, while some single mothers sell out their babies to childless couples, thereby giving their babies no identity, most times they end up selling their children to ritualist there by killing these babies before their time.

Some teenage mothers are brave enough to stand their ground and fight for their unborn child but they go through a lot of sufferings both during pregnancy and after birth. This is because single parenting is often attain with struggling especially if that single mother do not have enough capital or support to cater for herself and her unborn child. With this I would like to leave you with this one word “It is better to wait till you are married before engaging in sex.

On our next article we would discourse more on Infectious diseases which is the second phase of Physical consequence of sex.    

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